I have often been asked for my views on cremation. On rare occasions,
the question came from someone who was contemplating cremation or
someone who had a loved one who was contemplating cremation. But more
often than not, the question came from someone who had a loved one who
had already been cremated and the person asking the question had no
control over what had happened. They were grieving because a close
relative (child, sibling, etc.) had been cremated and they had been told
that cremation is a pagan practice, their close relative is in hell and
things like that.
Understand right up front that I am not recommending cremation. And I am
not saying that cremation is a good thing or anything like that. The
fact is that I advise against it. But the fact that someone incinerates
a loved one’s body doesn’t negate that loved one’s salvation. Living
human beings are body, soul and spirit. Where their soul and spirit goes
to spend eternity is based on their decision to accept or reject Jesus
before they die not by what family members decide to do with their body
after they die. When a person dies their soul and spirit are in heaven
or hell before anything is ever done with their body.
Many Christians have been burned at the stake. Many have died in bombed
buildings, burning houses, plane crashes, car accidents, etc. They
didn’t go to hell because their body was incinerated. And God couldn’t
do all things, if He couldn’t raise them from the dead. But He can do
all things.
Also, the unpardonable sin is blasphemy of the Holy Spirit (unbelief or
attributing to God the works of Satan) not cremation. And if the grace
of God can cover sins such as murder, adultery and lying, it can cover
cremation.
I personally am not aware of even one Bible verse that recommends
cremation or even one of God’s people whose body was cremated. On the
other hand, I know that Abraham buried Sarah (Gen. 23:19); that God told
Abraham that he would be buried (Gen. 15:15); and that when God was
faced with the decision on what to do with the body of Moses, God buried
Moses’ body (Deut. 34:5-6). I also believe that Jesus was buried and
every aspect of His death, burial and resurrection was orchestrated by
God. We know that David was buried (Acts 2:29) and archaeologists say
they have confirmed the burial place of Paul in Rome.
In addition to being Scriptural, having a body to see and say goodbye to
is often more beneficial to the grieving than is an urn full of ashes.
So cremation is not the best thing, but it is not an unpardonable sin
that will keep people out of heaven.