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"In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down
while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold"
(Ephesians 4:26).
This verse is familiar to anyone who has ever
experienced any Christian counseling, and like many Bible verses it
bears closer examination. Translations differ slightly in rendering this
passage and the Greek contains some interesting insights, but Paul was
quoting from Psalm 4 where the intent of the passage was established.
Let’s begin there.
Contained in the Old, Explained in the New
Answer me when I call to you, O my righteous God. Give me relief
from my distress; be merciful to me and hear my prayer.
How long, O men, will you turn my glory into shame ? How long will you
love delusions and seek false gods ?
Know that the LORD has set apart the godly for himself; the LORD will
hear when I call to him.
In your anger do not sin; when you are on your beds, search your hearts
and be silent. Offer right sacrifices and trust in the LORD.
Many are asking, “Who can show us any good?” Let the light of your face
shine upon us, O LORD.
You have filled my heart with greater joy than when their grain and new
wine abound. I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD,
make me dwell in safety.
David was distressed by the Israelites’ continuing
unfaithfulness to God. They were turning His glory to shame and seeking
after false gods (Ps. 4:1-2). It is the same frustration we feel today in
viewing the state of our world, so it’s logical to assume David was praying
on behalf of all who would share his feelings, no matter how far into the
future.
The Lord’s response was a warning to all of us not to
let that frustration turn to sin, but to shift our focus away from what
others are doing and search our own hearts instead. I believe the Lord had
David explain this because the next bit of advice is to offer the sacrifices
of righteousness and put our trust in the Lord (Ps. 4:4-5). In other words
we’re to make our own peace with God and trust Him to deal with those who’ve
aroused our anger. In Psalm 4:7 David said that in obeying, he was
given greater joy than those other people experience even after a bountiful
harvest, and he was then able to sleep in peace, his anger gone.
So back to Ephesians 4:26. Paul used two different Greek words translated
anger in the NIV. The first one, at the beginning of verse 26, means to be
provoked to anger. It’s a passive word, indicating the anger is the effect
of an outside action. The other one, at the end of the verse, means rage or
wrath and is used only here in scripture. The KJV translates the first as
anger and the second as wrath, but the idea is the same. What begins as a
reactive impression can quickly become an active expression.
In the preceding verses Paul had been saying,
“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your
old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new
in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be
like God in true righteousness and holiness" (Ephes. 4:22-24).
It’s interesting that one of his first examples of behavior unsuitable to
our new selves is anger.
It Feels So Natural
It’s natural to feel anger over the flagrant violation of God’s laws in the
world, both inside and outside the church. It’s bad enough when this hurts
others, but when it’s directed at us personally, it’s even worse.
And when that anger turns to resentment (anger stored
for future use), or causes us to respond in kind toward another person it
becomes sin for two reasons. One, it puts us in God’s role of judgment, and
two it causes us to presume that we’re better than the object of our
resentment. That’s called pride.
Using the context from Psalm 4 then, the lesson becomes clear.
Feeling anger is natural, but harboring it or acting
upon it is sin, even if we convince ourselves we’re justified because the
Lord’s on our side. Before we go to sleep at night we’re to realize
that in different circumstances we’d be quite capable of the very behavior
that has angered us. Perhaps we’ve actually behaved that way at one time or
another.
The Sermon on the Mount tells us that anger is as bad as murder from the
Lord’s perspective (Matt. 5:21-22). It’s the thought that counts, not just
the deed. As we lie on our beds we should let our hearts be convicted so we
can confess and be forgiven of our own sins and purified from all
unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). This is the sacrifice of righteousness
counseled in Psalm 4:5. Trust the Lord, who judges the intent of every
heart, to handle the rest and we’ll lose the anger and sleep peacefully.
Against You and You Only Have I Sinned, O Lord
If the object of our wrath is a friend or neighbor, or even the person lying
in the bed next to us, it’s a good idea to patch things up with them. But
remember the sin is against God. By judging other people’s motives and
meting out real or imagined punishment we’ve tried to make ourselves like
Him. Remember, He said,
“It is mine to avenge, I will repay” (Hebr. 10:30).
That means we’re not to worry about it.
Anger gives the devil a foothold (location or space)
in our life. Footholds become strongholds (fortresses) and can be
very difficult to demolish. The anger that spews from them can compromise
our witness, steal our joy, and impede our healing. As the Lord’s brother
said, "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to
speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the
righteous life that God desires" (James 1:19-20).